As the academic year ends, I find myself reflecting and searching for the word which defines this year for me. This year, reoccurring word is "๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง."
Big Chapter of ๐๐ข๐ง๐๐๐ฎ๐ฅย ๐๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฒย ๐๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ย Curriculum is dedicated to #Mindfulness #Compassion syllabus. And at the midst of teaching it, I found myself being tested on the most challenging aspect of it โ which isย #SelfCompassion
I had a health setback approaching the end of the academic year. Things were out of control.
I learned to take things slow, pay attention internally, and extend to myself and my body the utmost kindness and compassion.ย
You see, the more you flex your #SelfCompassion muscle, the more likely you can extend compassion to others.
When you allow yourself to fall, fail, get sick, feel tired, and make a mistake, you begin to understand that you are a human; and it is very humane to go through it all. This realization, of allowing yourself grace, gets mirrored into extending compassion to others.ย
๐๐ข๐๐ฌย ๐๐ก๐ย ๐๐๐๐๐จ๐งย ๐จ๐ย ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง & ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐
We delved deeper into the compassion curriculum while I was channeling my health setback. And to my surprise, I found an inexhaustible well of #compassion from my kids. They were, in so many ways, mindful, aware, and tentative. I believe we can all take a seat and witness how kids stretch and practice different dimensions of compassion beyond what is expected or imagined.
A big part of it is that they donโt rush through life. They are anchored. They are here in the present moment.
Wrapping up the academic year, I realized the seeds had been planted successfully ๐ชดย
That doesnโt mean the work is done. It means we are just getting started, and our seeds need constant watering and attending to, for them to grow ๐ฑ
๐๐ฎ๐ซย ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ฅ๐ย ๐๐๐ฌ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐๐ญ๐๐ฅ๐ฒย ๐ง๐๐๐๐ฌย ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐๐ญ๐, ๐๐ฆ๐ฉ๐๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ๐ข๐ย ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐๐ซ๐ฌ!
Our #Education never pays attention to #SoftSkills or #EQ โ and as #children we are shunned when we display #emotions and, especially #boys, they have been told their entire lives not to cry or express themselves.
This suppression creates #stress and takes a serious toll on us grown up leaders when we are unable to express ourselves, #communicate effectively, or hold space for our thoughts let alone holding a space for other people.ย
๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง starts from a young age.
the #EarlyYears of #Education, and thatโs why we created ๐๐ข๐ง๐๐๐ฎ๐ฅย ๐๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฒย ๐๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ย that is a curriculum ๐ฏ focused on the #MindfulnessOfEmotions that is #EmotionalIntelligence, #SoftSkills, and #Compassion. To start the #MindfulLeaders young.
๐ย ๐๐๐ง๐๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐งย ๐จ๐ย ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐๐ญ๐ย ๐๐๐๐๐๐ซ๐ฌย
Raising a generation who are not afraid to challenge norms, go down to the root of it, be curious, change policies, adjust procedures, and understand that the people are the Mainsail of the boat โต๏ธย and our #awareness of our words and actions can change the direction of the sail.
Leadership does not have to mean youโre an executive, or a manager, you can be a leader in everything that you do.
Today you can choose to be kinder to your team, to your colleagues, to a person behind you in a queue, to a service provider, to the person preparing your coffee. Choose to be generous with your attention, to mindfully listen when someone is speaking to you. Know we all go through challenges and battles every single day that no one knows about or understands.
๐๐จ๐๐๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ฌ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง.
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